Erm, First of all, i am a shy and quiet person since young. This behaviour didnt really improve even after im getting older. I felt shy to talk with someone that i dont really know he/she deeply.But after when i get to know the person more deeply and able to get along and communicate well, jokes or even fooling around with me then i only can make fun with them,talk nonsense and do something crazy together.
From time to time i discovered that communication are radically important for interaction and dealing with others. Communication between friends is very important because due to lack of communication among friends might cause any misunderstanding and i noticed that communication is just like learning something new from other friends. This eventually will lead to creative and innovative ideas, as the mindset is no longer individually constrained.
Meanwhile,communication is essential to express out one's opinion and ideas precisely. and i always kept on reminding myself the significance of asking the right questions, accepting vital critics and voicing out ideas. In fact, i was in doubt whenever i think about my communication skill. I have no confident and embarrassed of voice out my sound as well. i felt embarrassed when i need to talk to someone who i not really know and this embarrassment becomes a barrier for me to express my opinions or ideas and communicate to other peoples.
I feel that a good communication is indeed very important. But there are also some ways of communication between each other that i dislike, which is "perli". Some people talk like 'hua zhong you hua'. i dont know why people like to do that and their mind is really so called keng.Why keng?This is because they can think very fast and able to use the improper sentence to shot you just in time. Someone tell me that this is to create a better environment in our boring live life.Izzit true?hmm,maybe. Well, for me I dont talk much and im not that kind that easily get along with others, I need some time to digest . I only voice out when asked. My friend told me that I am the type that takes thing very seriously. Hmm I think I should expose myself more to the outside environment to overcome my embarrassment and to increase my confident.
